Want Emotional Independence? ConnectionCue™ Cards Will Lead You There!
Emotional independence is when…
…you feel strong and grounded. It’s when you know yourself inside out. It’s when you know you can trust yourself completely to take care of your own needs. That’s what these little cards help to do: give you emotional independence.
Feeling helpless, hopeless or misunderstood? Or blown around by other people’s emotional storms (drama)?
Get to know yourself thoroughly: know exactly what you want in your life.
Find just the right tone of voice to ask for what you want in a way that is both comfortable for you and that your partner can hear.
Emotional independence is comes from being able to express yourself clearly – and is worth its weight in gold!
How do you get to this strong and grounded place? How do you get to know yourself fully. How do you express yourself to others?
The answer is with NVC (Non Violent Communication by Dr Marshall Rosenberg), made easy with ConnectionCue™ Cards and RelationshipCue Cards.
Stretch the Way You Think and Speak
Become aware of your feeling and need in every situation: become fully connected with yourself
In our western cultures we often squeeze out the feeling and need from our conversations. Whether we are thinking or speaking to someone, we often leave out feelings and needs which are the secret to awareness and knowing clearly what we are saying or thinking.
Add back in your own feeling and need and discover who you really are and what you really want in your life!
Dr Marshall Rosenberg, who died in 2015 and who created NVC, said “When you know, address and meet your human needs, you will feel fine. When you don’t…”
This is huge! He was right. Unbelievably simple, NVC is very powerful. In fact it is the most powerful tool I have found to open your awareness.
During times of stress…
…it’s hard to unravel and understand what would make you feel better – or clearer – in a certain circumstance.
Yet by looking at your feeling at that moment – however fleeting – you will know what you need. Or needed.
From there it’s simple logic to brainstorm strategies to address that need and you can change your actions to align with what you believe and want. Now.
All this from listening to your instinctive feeling. Time and time again.
A strong, grounded and peaceful you that can speak your truth in a kind way that you feel completely comfortable with.
It’s not easy to remember 70+ different needs at the very moment when your mind goes blank and you feel overwhelmed. NVC theory makes perfect sense and yet it was so hard to actually ‘do’. With ConnectionCue cards everything falls into place and just makes more sense.
I had never considered that I didn’t really know myself as well as I thought I did. And I had never thought in terms of separating thought from feelings from needs. Would it really make any difference?
It did. NVC was like a magic key! However, in practice NVC is uncannily hard to do. It is logical and so obviously ‘the right thing’.
ConnectionCue™ Cards make it easy! Glossy, bright little cards name your every need! Right in front of your eyes. You can see all of your needs at a glance. Somehow, the needs that are most important to you in a specific moment, ‘jump out’ at you and guide you to uncover your own answers, sometimes buried quite deep inside you.
Over ten years later and despite the fact that I created these cards, I still use them. I still love to actually see all the words to connect with the need (perhaps hiding) inside me. When I spread them out in front of me, magic happens and my confusion disappears.
A straightforward guide booklet that I will email to you when you receive the cards will give you suggestions on how to use the cards.
Whatever your problem, ConnectionCue™ Cards make your path clearer for you. You can express your needs with more clarity to others. And somehow in a kinder and more gentle way. It’s human nature to want to give to those we care about and so, when we ask, we tend to receive the support we need. Wow!
It’s a wonderful thing to feel in control of your own life. Independent and interdependent at the same time.
How Do You Know Which Need – Which ConnectionCue™ Card – To Choose?
You are the expert on you. You will be drawn to the card that best fits your situation. There may be several cards that fit one situation… This is very normal.
Explore your inner world, guided by your needs. Allow ConnectionCue to walk that path with you. Brainstorm strategies to address your needs and breathe a sigh of relief as you grow in emotional independence.
Affordable email support is always available to answer any question you might have: email me! I am currently working on a sales page so that you can easily buy these cards but, for now, if you email me I will arrange to have them sent to you.
I wish you a wonderful day and thank you for reading this page!