Searching For Emotional Independence? ConnectionCue™ Cards Are The Answer!
There’s nothing worse that feeling helpless or feeling misunderstood: emotional independence which I believe is connected to being able to express yourself clearly is worth its weight in gold. But how do you get to this place? How do you even get to know yourself, let alone express yourself to others? The answer is with NVC (Non Violent Communication) and ConnectionCue™ Cards.
Needs Are Magic Words
Do you know clearly who you are and what it takes to make you happy?
In a perfect world, if you were sitting in a circle of half a dozen friends, you could easily brainstorm 70 or more essential human needs. There would be peels of laughter at some suggestions – and other suggestions would never make it to the final cut!
Marshall Rosenberg who died in 2015 and who created NVC said “When you know and meet your human needs you will feel fine. When you don’t…”
He was right. Unbelievably simple, NVC proves to be 100% true.
Needs – Not Thoughts or Feelings – Hold The Key
This theory seemed oversimple at first. My reaction was dismissive: “of course I know my own needs”. The truth turned out to be quite different.
During times of stress, it’s hard to unravel why you feel the way you do… So you can fix it.
Let alone remember 70+ different needs at that moment when you’re mind goes blank. NVC theory was such a logical step for me: it seemed so obvious.
I had never considered that I didn’t really know myself as well as I thought and I certainly had never thought in terms of separating thought from feelings from needs. Would it really make any difference?
It did. But in practice NVC is extremely hard to do.
ConnectionCue™ Cards make it easy! Beautifully designed cards lay out your every need, right in front of your eyes. You can see all of needs at a glance. Over ten years later and despite the fact that I created these cards, I still use them. When I spread them out in front of me, magic happens and my confusion disappears.
A straightforward guide explains how to use the cards to change your situation. Whatever your problem, ConnectionCue™ Cards make it clearer for you. In turn, you can express your needs with more clarity to others. Wow! It’s a wonderful thing to feel in control of your own life.
How Do You Know Which Need – Which ConnectionCue™ Card – To Choose?
You are the expert on you. You will be drawn to the card that best fits your situation. There may be several cards that fit one situation… This is very normal.
Explore your inner world, guided by the cards. Learn how to address your needs and breathe a sigh of relief as you grow in emotional independence.
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