Cue Cards

ConnectionCue and RelationshipCue Cards…

Cue cards keep you on track and enable you to continue work between sessions and when counselling has ended.

Use your Cue cards to work singly, as a couple, with a friend or with your counsellor.

ConnectionCue Cards

ConnectionCue Cards guide you to discover your needs blueprint – which is as unique to you as your fingerprints. Your needs blueprint is completely individual, despite needs being universal. Knowing your needs blueprint is key, so that you can both know your self well and to all good communication with others.

What do I mean by universal needs? Every human on this earth has the same needs, whatever their ethnicity, age, religion or sex. However, each of us also has a unique profile – or needs blueprint – because we each require a unique amount of each need.

With this blueprint to guide you, you know yourself better. You will know exactly what you want – and so ask for what you know you want. You will be able to communicate clearly, with yourself and also with your friends/ partner.

ConnectionCue Cards are small, well designed and colourful little cards with a different need – or feeling – printed on each. They will guide you to express yourself with crystal-clear communication and heart-felt authenticity. Now and then you may even surprise yourself!

ConnectionCue Cards are $59.95 – our direct links are not working yet but if you email me with details of what you would like to purchase and the address to which I can have these cards mailed, I will send you an invoice to pay online and would be happy to place the order for you.


These postcard sized cards guide you to speak so your partner can feel you… Rather than simply hear your words (on a good day!)

Fighting fair – or even just speaking calmly with our loved ones when we are feeling stressed and under pressure – is not only difficult. It is physically impossible… (ask me why)?

Naturally, humans are programmed from the start to try and ‘win’ (survive), underpinned by how we have learned to stay safe. Stay safe, that is, at a deep ‘not-yet-with-words’ level – which we learn in childhood.

ConnectionCue cards work with RelationshipCue cards – for individuals, couples or groups. RelationshipCue cards guide you, step by step, to explore and put into words that which you may not even be aware that you are wanting to share. These cards, with their firm but simple rules, keep you on track and guide you to build your conversation in such a way that your partner can not only hear your words, but will truly understand what you are saying. Feel you. Every time! These cards are also easy to use.

CueCards stay with you, right through this process and prove to be much more effective than a self-help book. Some clients come back for a ‘tune up’ every few years and report that, years later, they still use their cards when things get tough.

When a loved one not only understands your words – but when you have also given them the gift of sharing how you felt in that moment – they are often willing to help you meet these needs. Needs that been crying out to be seen for years. Why? Because they love you.

Speaking clearly, choosing the ‘right’ words (with the help of the cards), so your partner can both hear you and share how you felt in that moment, is successful. Very successful.

Before long, you will be enjoying a richer life than you ever thought possible!

RelationshipCue Cards are also $59.95 – our direct links are not working yet, but if you email me with details of what you would like to purchase and the address to which I can have these cards mailed, I will send you an invoice to pay online and would be happy to place the order for you.

A set of both ConnectionCue and RelationshipCue cards are available for $99. To have both sets of cards to hand for couples counselling is recommended. At the moment I have included shipping, although this may be an extra cost, depending on where in the world you live. I will confirm the exact cost with you before purchase. Thank you!

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